Dating and relationship coach for women over 40, Bobbi Palmer writes a love letter to Martha in the Huffington Post‘s Post 50. Complimenting Martha on her decision to venture into online dating, Palmer affirms that “as someone who found her husband on Match at age 47, I know that this is the best place to find love and romance. So kudos to you, Martha.”
Noting that Stewart is not growing younger, this is the place to look. Palmer offers “I must insist that you take off your ‘billionaire-media-mogul-I’ll crush all-my-competition’ hat for a minute and listen up.”
Her first tip is that to attract the successful leaders whom Martha undoubtedly would like to meet, she must be kind. “These men are awash in masculine energy. These ‘alpha’ dudes are attracted to w-o-m-e-n. Kindness, softness and sensuality are what make them feel safe being themselves… and feel like a man.” Bobbi reassures Martha that she doesn’t have to have to be too nice, rather combine softness with “all your fantastic-ness.”
Next come don’t compete and “be a whole person.”
Closing with“Love, Bobbi,” Palmer articulates her belief that with a little resolve and ingenuity, all women 40+ are capable of finding“lasting, fulfilling grownup love” on dating sites.